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Being Present with a Friend in the Hard Times (Part Two)
I have hens. I have had hens for thirty-five years. I just love the girls. But with chicken food and water outside, it ends up being a “come and get it” smorgasbord for all the rats in the neighborhood. They live down under the chicken … Continue reading
Being Present with a Friend in the Hard Times (Part One)
The next two posts will be adapted from some sharing I did with a group of women at a retreat recently. Friendships can be so hard and messy, because, of course, we each bring our mess to the table. We all … Continue reading
“Be Brave” continues. . .
Welcome Jen, to the “Be Brave” movement! Your new beautiful tattoo speaks of your already brave heart! “MANIFESTO OF THE BRAVE AND BROKENHEARTED:There is no greater threat to the critics and cynics and fear mongers than those of us who … Continue reading
37 Years Old
It’s been sunny these last days of July. But this morning, rain has come. Sad and gray; kind of how I feel on the inside today. I’m sitting at my coffee shop, doing some self-care by sitting still for a while with my … Continue reading
If I’m Honest
If I’m honest . . . I admit that when I have leftovers after a meal, I feel bad throwing them away because of all the starving children all around the world. So, I carefully store the extra casserole in the … Continue reading
Who Is Driving?
I didn’t realize that writing about this subject would open me up and expose that shame is still lurking in my cells. It feels like once it gets inside the cell walls – it’s stuck in there and threatens to multiply … Continue reading
A Wrinkle In Time
So, my husband asked me to “sit” for the art class he is teaching, as they needed another face to draw. When he said I could just sit there and read, I accepted the job. But here’s the thing – I have … Continue reading
Letting Go
“We cannot attain the presence of God because we’re already totally in the presence of God. What’s absent is awareness.” Everything Belongs,by Richard Rohr This feels risky and crazy to post a blog on prayer. Thousands of books have been written on prayer … Continue reading
I See You
“The wisdom of the Desert Fathers includes the wisdom that the hardest spiritual work in the world is to love the neighbor as the self – to encounter another human being not as someone you can use, change, fix, help, … Continue reading
Broken
Kintsugi translated “golden joinery” or “golden repair” is the centuries-old Japanese art of fixing broken pottery with gold. This practice is related to the Japanese philosophy of wabi-sabi, which calls for seeing beauty in the flawed or imperfect. The repair … Continue reading